Sunday, December 31, 2006

Surrounding Yourself With Positve People

 -- Click for more Information to popup     "Surround yourself with people who can build you up". I am listening to Joel Osteen this morning, as always I missed a good portion of the program, but that was his advice.

I seldom talk about him unless someone else brings up his name because any talk of religion can lead to hurt feelings, ugliness, etc. Personally I consider Osteen a more of a motivator rather than a preacher, in the sense that I know it. This morning he said something that I have said for years, "God did not bring you here to be mistreated and abused." Did I say my hallelujahs?--you bet I did. So many people stay in bad relationships, marriage, workplace, friends, because they are afraid to leave or worst they are afraid the person will leave them. Osteen went further to say the best thing an abuser can do for you is to give you the gift of good bye.  

Why do I bring this up? Not sure. It's my first real thought this morning.

Friday, December 29, 2006

Helpful Link

 -- Click for more Information to popup      Getting through to a real person on the telephone.

This link was in my Women's Wall Street e-newsletter. If you have ever tried to get through to a service representative you will find this helpful. http://whatis.techtarget.com/definition/0,,sid9_gci1163748,00.html 

This number  is from AARP's January 2007 issue http://gethuman.com/us/  AARP states that the site is updated weekly, and also allows you to report you own "on hold time.  You are reminded that company telephone informaiton can change without warning.  I guess that means if too many consumers get wise enough to get through to a real person. :-)

End of the Year Chatter

 Champagne background     I hope everyone had a lovely Christmas.     

It's funny how you can think I need to tell this person or that person, then you realize they are no longer available, for whatever reason. I read something about UMD and had to chuckle and wanted so much to tell Wanda, she is the only one who would have known why I found it funny. Here's looking at you kid. I'm having a salt-rimmed margarita (sp?) at midnight on the 31st.

This year's end is leaving me with sad news. I am trying to get past it with some kind of style and dignity. LOL--not sure that I am accomplishing that.

I just received paperwork from the Social Security Admin. offices, what a $$ shocker. Still life is good and fortunately, I am comfortable and still happy with my decision. I was approached to work part-time, but turned it down. I do not want to be under constraints, unless I make them. I am enjoying freelancing. Sometimes it's hectic, but always of my own making, and that suits me just fine.

I just looked at this coming years timeshare availability. Will take two full weeks hopefully this winter and next fall and two long weekends sometime  in summer. This schedule seems to work for me.

Oh groan, my hair is so short, not sure why I did this--in the back of my mind is my moms voice saying, "Child, one day your hair won't grow back." I am sure it will have grown by spring .

January is the month we are supposed to mentor people, especially young people. We are also supposed to thank our own mentors. These days that person would have to be the owner of the site that I write for, this woman is amazing. My guess is that she is not wealthy in dollars, but she is definitely  wealthy in spirit. She and her managers have sent certificates of appreciation to all of the writer's, and a couple of days ago, I received a Christmas card from her (I am sure everyone did) and a bar of handmade soap that smells delicious. The soap is milled by one of the writer's company. These women are amazing, I can't believe that I am among this group. One woman has a flourishing hair product business.

Monday, December 18, 2006

Always Hit the Save Key

Mornin' Bloggie,

 -- Click for more Information to popup     I lost my work. I have been typing for over an hour and did not hit save one time. What was I thinking--no one knows better than I to save your work every few minutes.  I am devastated. Well, maybe the draft was really bad and it's a good thing I lost it. Yeh. Right. :-(

 

Thursday, December 14, 2006

A Bummer of a Week

sunrise/sunsets -- Click for more Information to popup Boy. What a week. I am so happy that I went to my volunteer appreciation dinner. I may pursue another venue of (quasi)-volunteering. I am not sure if that is the correct term, I suspect not. LOL. But this is something that comes with a small stipend.

Had bad news when I arrived home Monday night, my senior is not doing well. I have been talking to family member's who are understandably worried. My good friend is now in a nursing home, at least it is close by and I will be able to visit her. I am hopeful that I will be able to visit my senior as well. In times of trouble I become the child I used to be and said my prayers that night. I prayed that they be kept in the best health they could be and that I stay well enough to do what I can for them. The next morning it took me almost two hours to wake up and get up. That never happens to me, I awaken like a jack-in-the-box. It took me until almost 9:30a to realize that I was sick. I made a decision that I would stay home, I almost had no choice.

I did not go to my 10a meeting, did not see my friend or my senior and did not turn my computer on again that day. Instead I slept the entire day. I can't remember when I have done that--it must be years. Apparently I needed the rest, so my body made me do, what common sense was telling to do--slow down :-(  Yesterday, I work up at my regular early a.m. time and haven't looked back. Tuesday, I even had a low-grade fever.

Today I feel as if I have never had a sick day. Very odd-but I try not to question some things. You just have to believe that the sun will come out tomorrow.

Tuesday, December 12, 2006

O.K. I Admit it I am Tired

Cartoon man snoozing -- Click for more Information to popup      I am exhausted and not sure why. I went to the Jewish Family Service Volunteer Dinner last night. It was very nice and we did not stay out late. Incidentally the JFS serves everyone--all races and religions. www.jfs-metronj.org.

I have a 10a meeting this morning, visit my friend in the hospital today and see my senior this evening. Apparently, she is having some problems.

Really feeling like I want to crawl back into bed--a new thing for me. Even my eyes hurt. LOL 

Monday, December 11, 2006

Pinochet's Death

funeral service  at the gravesite -- Click for more Information to popup        Last night while watching the news I saw that Pinochet had been denied a State funeral, so there will be no pomp and circumstace, etc. However, before signing out just now, I saw this headline.  No real thoughts or comments, just an observation that no matter how evil a person is, there is always someone who will mourn their death. I guess that's a good thing. 

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 Hundreds pay respects to Pinochet AP -

SANTIAGO, Chile - Hundreds of supporters of Gen. Augusto Pinochet, many in tears, filed Monday past the brown wooden coffin for the ex-dictator, who was denied a state funeral normally granted to former presidents. While Pinochet's relatives mourned his death Sunday from heart failure at age 91, his many opponents celebrated with champagne and lamented that he escaped justice for the torture and killings that marked his 17 years in power after a bloody 1973 coup.

Highs and Lows of Online Publishing

people climbing a ladder to success -- Click for more Information to popup      This past weekend, I noticed that newsletter subscriptions for my Work & Family site http://workandfamily.bellaonline.com are down. When I sent out the last newsletter, I thought the number was unfamiliar but thought it was my imagination. I decided to check and found that it was not.

I went to the Hot & Spicy food http://hotandspicy.bellaonline.com subscriptions and found that they are down also. I love when people let me know why no longer wish to recieve my newsletters, I can make changes, improve, etc. when I am told "You need more this or that." a lot of time the reason is one I often use. E-mail overload!!  Neither site has lost more than 35 readers, but....

A few months back I mentioned to a friend that I was finally going to add a face to my columns, I told her my concerns about doing that, but I did it anyway and am happy that I did. It was the right move. However, I am going to try to do some digging to find out approximately when the dip occured. It's interesting that my site numbers continue to rise, even with the slight drop in newsletter sign-up.

I have a huge campaign to work for my Work & Family site, from January to June in 2007. Also, I will be (MAYBE-smiling) putting spicy appetizer e-book together for my Hot & Spicy foods site. A daunting task.

Like Scarlet, I feel like thinking about both these things tomorrow :-( 

Thursday, December 7, 2006

The Week is Flying By

businessman working at his desk   I can't believe how quickly this week has moved. I woke up so early Monday morning, by 3:30a I was up and working. I tried to go back to sleep, but that wasn't happening so I just got up to work. It's a good thing I did though. I went to visit my friend, she has been moved to UH--I'm happy for that. At least I can visit her on a weekly basis, perhaps more. However, we had so much to catch up with, I stayed from 11a or so until after 3p. That and being up at 3:30a put a damper on my evening. I was exhausted. It was worth it, my friend is looking much better. This is only the second time that I have actually been a visitor at UH. I was somewhat familiar with the floors and the layout. It's funny I kept looking around and hoping that I would not be recognized as 'legal management'. Everything went fine. It is possible that folks would not want to talk to me anyway with everything that is still going on in admin.

Hoping for a quiet weekend. May get back to the hospital before Monday, not sure.

Tuesday, November 28, 2006

Really Home - Vacation Glow Gone

businesswoman     Hi Bloggie, It's been a few days huh? :-) I love being away but always happy to return. As wonderful as my 4 pound laptop is, I can work faster using the larger one. But, I hate to think of what my e-mails would have looked like had I not been able to get to the internet for a week. Groan and more groans. I know that the smaller machine will be a real blessing.

Before I left for AC I talked to Wendy about the Friends of East Orange Public Library auction and jazz event. www.eopl.org/  It was awesome. Well attended, great music and fabulous auction items, including fur coats. http://www.njstatelib.org/LDB/LibNetNews/news_item.php?item_id=296

My coordinator is such a sweetie, she wanted to invite a few of us out for tapas and wine as a 'thank you.' I had to say no because I was busy readying to leave for AC. I laughed and told her how I felt when I walked out and saw all of those people sitting and waiting for the program to begin. Boy, I felt that I had been tricked big time. (LOL) But I did it. I opened the auction. I'm so proud of myself. Then I ended up wearing and modeling a $3k mink cape and that was after I finished typing auction info. I guess I  must really like her :-) The two pieces of chunky jewelry that I donated were sold. Yah! 

Well I have been paying serious typing dues since my return. My movie review is looking pretty good and I have earned some $$'s from it. I had a check waiting for me in the mailbox :-) Wish I had time to rest on my laurels but I don't. I'll do some proofing tonight.   

Friday, November 24, 2006

Welcome Mr. Sun

Autumn leavesIt's a autum beautiful day. The sun is almost blinding this morning and there is no sign that AC had torrential rain and gigantic waves climbing over the boardwalk.

I stepped out on the balcony and finally I can stand out there with a cup of coffee. Too bad I am getting ready to head by home. I would love a day of sun and walk down to Gardner's Basin. My guest left last night after dinner so this morning belongs to me and my thoughts. This worked out wonderfully. Much better than I ancitipated because it was last minute planning.

I will be leaving in a hour or so. But first things first--a little housekeeping, some last minute checking stuff and things.

Thursday, November 23, 2006

Happy Thanksgiving

    Cornucopia Happy Thanksgiving everyone. The waves are still crashing against the shore this morning and, it's windy and rainy--brrr.

Almost ready to head to the dining room for breakfast.  I think we have a choice of breakfast foods and/or Thanksgiving dinner. You would be surprised how many people enjoy eating turkey and stuffing early in the morning.  Happily it will be a quiet day for us and happily there are two televisions here. I plan to keep TCM on all day, they are showing old Doris Day movies. Boy, she sang like a bird. This is just what I need this after receiving more bad news about my office. I still think of Legal Management as my office, my people. I am hoping this will have a positive turn.

I just looked out at the waves again, yeh I know, but I can't help it :-( the ocean draws me to it.  The waves are much higher this morning.  In one particular spot they are going under the boardwalk but coming over the low wall and into the street and flooding the area. Yesterday we went out on the balcony for a few minutes, today it would be foolhardy to do that.

Heading for breakfast (or dinner).

Wednesday, November 22, 2006

Singer Tony Martin - He Still Has It!

TV entertainer    Tony Martin was on television last night. He was sensational. I cannot believe that he is 80 years old. It seems almost 'eeww' to think that he is sexy, but what you gonna do? (LOL) When I was in the 5th or 6th grade, I remember that I knew how to draw 3 things wonderfully well; a bird, an hour-glass shaped woman with her hands on her hips, and Tony Martin standing in a spotlight with his arms stretched out. I always wrote the words to one of his songs on the same page. I don't remember the name of the song, but I do recall that I knew all of the words. I am sure that's because my dad listened to the "Make Believe Ballroom" all day. I think it is still on public radio. The promo song is playing in my head right now.

Martin was interviewed earlier today and he knocks me out--he sang with all of those young folks and gave them a run for their money. This show is surely one of their great moments. If there is a DVD, I will definately buy it. 

The Ocean is Showing Her Strength

boy with umbrella    I can't not believe the noise from the ocean's waves last night. I ended up getting up in the middle of the night to write about it.

Am expecting a friend down here later today. We will be eating in the dining room tonight, the wind looks so fierce and the water is still bouncing off the boardwalk. He is delayed because of the traffic heading this way. My goodness I am having a hard time concentrating this morning. Probably because too much going on, I have two televisions on, but mostly it's mother nature's fault, you can't give people spectacular waves and expect them go about their work when such a tremendous water show is playing just outside their window :-( Even the sound makes you get up to see what's happening.  

She (the water) continues to show her strength and I get it. Just like when a mom gives you "the look" or says your name in a certain way, you may deep sigh, but you know who is boss.

Saturday, November 18, 2006

Not Wishing This Day Away, But...

hourglass -- Click for more Information to popup      So much is going on, and I'm stressed. Sill it feels like a good day.

My girlfriend is, oh so ill, I saw her Monday and won't be able to see her until I return after Thanksgiving. I did not wake up this morning thinking of her as I have been doing. That's a good sign. She has made sure that she was very independent, even of friends--when she held my hand at the end of my visit and said "I don't want you to go", I was hit hard. But for some reason I am feeling positive today, I hope she is also. I will call her good friend today, I must let her know that I will not be able to visit Monday.

I finished writing my short speech. I cannot believe that I am the opening speaker at this event tonight--I did not even feel myself being sucked in, usually I do. I am saying a quick prayer that all goes well and that we makes lots of money for the library. I using my new notebook. My goodness, this keyboard is small. No complaints from me though, I had thought up until this morning that I would have to travel with my big laptop because I could not find a AOL download disc. I changed my plans today after feeling the pull, if I can call it that, of going to pick up my mail and stopping by BlockBuster(sp?) to see if they had one, I was willing to pay. The young man just said, "they are right over there, free". Oh, happy day. I bought a cheap pair of 'starlet' high heels and headed straight home. I was able to buy my one real indulgence, Hanes stockings.

I am setting up this little baby so I can take it with me. It fits in my large laptop purse perfectly.  Maybe I need to cut my nails shorter to use it comfortably. Nahh! I'll get the hang of it soon.  However, I do wonder where the 'insert' key is :-(

Friday, November 17, 2006

Very Busy Not Sure Why :-(

concept: business person running with breifcase -- Click for more Information to popup    All of a sudden, I am feeling swamped. There was a 9:30a meeting I needed to attend yesterday, but was unable to, that always makes me feel anxious, maybe it's a guilt thing. Two days ago I was asked to speak at the Friends of East Orange Library Auction tomorrow. I don't have anything written down, must do so today and get some feedback.

Have been up for a couple hours to make sure I have clean articles ready for Sunday publishing. Already sent one review, but still feel pushed against the wall. I had hoped to see "Casino Royale" today, but know that won't happen.  

Will be away for Thanksgiving and have not given thought to what clothing I will take--that's not new I never know, I have found that it's not all that important as long as I have a couple of pairs of jeans, etc. My finger's are crossed that my new J.D. Robb novel will arrive today or tomorrow, I would love to take it with me.

I cannot believe that O.J Simpson has written a book about Nicole's murder. It's not so much that I am shocked (which I am), mostly I wonder what's going on in his mind. To me, this ranks him right up there with Jeffrey Dahmer. I feel so bad about this.

I just noticed that I did not send in some info for the Auction. So odd, I am sitting her typing and I hear the song "The Book of Love". O.K. I don't have time to think about my ex-husband, etc. right now. Trying to figure out how much East Orange Library stuff, I can get done by 11a  today. LOL.

Yes!! I do know what I will take with me--long skirts/easy care tops--that always work. It's not like I will be going anywhere. I have even decided what I will wear tomorrow night.

Feeling very much the white rabbit in "Alice in Wonderland." at this moment. 

     

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

Supposed to be Researching - BUT!

 -- Click for more Information to popup     While doing a search, I came upon the most interesting site, ZuZu http://www.zuzu.org/contents.html  There is a section titled "My Neighborhood" and the the blurbs appear to be written by children. They tell us they feel about their towns.  
 
Here is what youngster wrote, "My name is David Vu. I live in Brooklyn Center MN. My neighborhood is alright. There is going to be alot of hmong people coming to live here.So I'm glad. So my neigborhood is alright."  At first glance I thought the word  "hmong" was a typo, but decided to check it out, in doing so I came across the most interesting information about a group of people had have heard of.  http://www.jefflindsay.com/Hmong_tragedy.html    
See an online Hmong newspaper http://www.hmongtimes.com/  
 
Here is what another kid says about her town--ya gotta love a kid who is not afraid to speak her mind, "I live in Stoughton, Ma. A place where NOTHING happpens, it is boring I have to go to Brockton or Boston just to have some excitment with my friends! We have a small little movie theater that was a buck a night! But then of course it was bought out by another company! Now it is five bucks a night! Now I am broke!!

Just recently we got the 911 number for the police & ambulance. Before we had two different numbers for the police & ambulance, 344-2424 & 344-3131! Was that dumb or is it me? We have no malls, no GOOD! shopping stores! What is wrong with this town! Another crappy thing was that they are destroying all of the land on my street by making cheap new houses out of particle board! If you wanna move to Stoughton do NOT buy a knew house! It would be a major mistake!!

During the summer there were three incidents that actually put us on the news (which was a first)! It started at the beginning, Two stores were robbed Town spa (a really great place to get pizza), don't ask me why the robbed a pizza joint! And Christy's. Yes the one that has a gas station outside. Another thing that happened was there was a double murder two Stoughton men were killed by a psycho who lives in Sharon. Just over money !! Stupid Huh. The third thing was a 16 yr old boy was hit by a car. He ran out in front of it, too bad the car couldn't brake in time. Sorry I can't tell you anymore since it just happened at 12:00 midnight last night. I don't even know if he lived or not!

Well as you can see I really HATE this town. If anyone knows a good place in the U.S. to live E-mail me PLEASE! I gotta get outta here!! Oh yea here most of the people listen to rap!!!! YUCK!! LOSERS.

Words by an 8 year old, paintings by a 5th grader. Such talent. http://www.zuzu.org/sara.html

I must go back to the really sweet site later. Anxious to read what other children think of their neighborhoods. http://www.zuzu.org/neig.html  Who knows, I may learn something else ;-)

Wednesday, November 8, 2006

Deep Sigh!

 -- Click for more Information to popup     I have spent sooo much cash this month :-(  Plus I used my AMEX to the hilt. I should not use my AMEX until June 2007. Of course I have to be realistic so I know that this is not possible, but I do plan to make December a much better financial-spending month. So far, November has been a slow income month for me, but I am hopeful, I still have a couple of weeks to go. When I picked up my biz mail yesterday all I found was my AMEX bill and my new wireless laptop was listed (a pox on those Visa people for doing the right thing and trying to protect me.) But I do consider this a very necessary expense. Come January I think I will invest in a pdf program, which will make my online advice to clients difficult to change. I don't believe that anyone has done that or would do it, but it does pay to be cautious. I must follow my own advice--meanwhile I am trying to find a good free program.

I stopped by C & A's for lunch this week and had a really good corn chowder. It was tasty and had huge chunks of white potatoes. The little buttered roll that came with it made it just perfect. Sometimes, it takes so little to make me happy. (smiling)

 

Friday, November 3, 2006

Kinda Makes You "Wonder"

man flexing his muscles -- Click for more Information to popup      Everytime you stop and say, "Now I have heard everything", there is always one more thing.  Now there is the "Wonderjock" for men, apparently very similar to the "Wonderbra" for women. I am not knocking this, if women can wear a bra that makes them appear to be more endowed, why not men? 

While reading the morning news on AOL I found this item. "SYDNEY (Nov. 2) - Size really does count, just ask Australian underwear maker AussieBum which has just launched the "Wonderjock" for men who want to look bigger. Since the launch seven days ago, AussieBum says it has sold 50,000 pairs of "Wonderjock," mostly on its Web site www.aussiebum.com and a handful of stores around the world..."There is no padding, rings or strings," said Ashby, a co-founder of the Internet-based AussieBum firm."    
http://news.aol.com/topnews/articles/_a/underwear-helps-men-look-bigger/n20061102073309990012?cid=936

Thursday, November 2, 2006

Wall Street and Image

street sign -- Click for more Information to popup   I heard this news while watching television last night.

" On gays and lesbians in the workplace, Wall Street may have embraced change faster than other industries. That is one suggestion in a recent feature from Bloomberg News, which examines the increasing number of openly gay employees at old-line securities firms." The full story is here.
http://www.bloomberg.com/apps/news?pid=20601109&sid=a2GgU1I4YhPc&refer=home

Isn't there a Bob Dylan song that goes "Times they are achanging."?  Years ago when I started working for a securities firm, they were very concerned about my 'telephone voice.' I know this because the telephone operator told me months later, after we became friendly.

I had told my mom about the many telephone calls I received from the manager before I actually started the job and mom, God bless her, got it on first try, she said "Baby-girl they want to know if you sound colored on the telephone." My reaction was, "Oh, that can't be true, but Betty confirmed that indeed it was true. Did I say anything to my manager? No I did not. Did I quit? No I did not. But when I did leave, I did it with style. There were real reqrets from the brokers (except one-I think) and my manager. It did my heart good, when he repeatedly asked me to stay and offer me a raise to do so. It did my heart one better when I said no. 

Wednesday, November 1, 2006

Manicures, Politics and Other Stuff

handprints -- Click for more Information to popup      Got my nails done yesterday. I decided to go with a different color, I do every once in a while. The color I use is the same one I have been using for 6 or 7 years. Hey, it suits me :-)  So anyway, I pick a color from the rack and my manicurist does a wrinkle nose face and says "Oh, no. Not this, you need a 'working woman's color. MMmm. What? I can't be jazzy? I'm trying to look hot and she calls me a working woman? Since she is the professional, I took her advice and went with the WW color. <big grin>

Poor Senator Kerry, he claims he was joking when he said ''You know, education, if you make the most of it, you study hard, you do your homework and you make an effort to be smart, you can do well. If you don't, you get stuck in Iraq.''-- Sen. John Kerry.  That does not read like a joke, even when you hear it the humor in his voice, it is not amusing. Jokes about war and soldier's are seldom funny.  Mom's can turn ugly when they think you are speaking  ill of their offspring. Auntie's too ;-)

Good Morning America showed an interview with Little David's dad. He seems to be satisfied with Madonna's adoption of his son. He says that Madonna has promised to return with David every 4 years. A pox on nay-sayers--I believe that Madonna has an unusually big heart, like Liz Taylor and Mia Farrow.   

Oh, I love my new laptop, a couple of days ago I used it to watch a movie and play a Rod Stewart CD. I am 'Snoopy dance' happy. This baby weights only 4-1/2 pounds. I am waiting for the AOL CD so I can go online. Yah! When I called AOL I was told that most post offices have the free trial CD's, I have not been able to find one here, but will check in SO this week.  

The weather has been so gorgeous this week, when I went to pick up my biz mail I saw a lot of people lunching outside and catching the rays. I had planned to pick up a few items from the supermarket, but did not because I could not find my supermarket coupons. When I came home I saw them in the outer pocket of my purse. (groan)   

Tuesday, October 31, 2006

Giving Back by Volunteering

 -- Click for more Information to popup     You all know that I volunteer cuz I enjoy it and that I belive that I have an obligation to give-back because I have been so lucky to have family, decent health and good friends. The coordinator of volunteers at Jewish Family Service has asked me to be on their volunteer commitee and I agreed to do this. I hope I can add valuable input. Everyone knows that I spend time with "my senior." I started doing this because I hoped that someone would do the same for my mom if necessary. Fortunately, she had her own volunteer group, her children, her grands and her church members. I had never thought of what I do as really important--these days I am seeing that it is. 

If anyone is interested in volunteering th JFS see their purpose, etc. at www.jfs-metronj.org  or if you are not in the area and looking for volunteering opportunities go to Volunteer Match it hundreds of ops through-out the USA. http://www.volunteermatch.org/

Happy Halloweeen and Other Stuff

 Cartoon pumpkinBoo! Happy Halloween everyone. concept: Halloween/witch on a broom

Happy birthday to my dad. I know that he is is still watching over me :-)

I am quite sure that I saw kids dressed up for Halloween yesterday?? This thing about Halloween and "sex offender must not open door" thing is so frightening. I think that I would not allow my child to go out alone. It is a brand new world. It was so different when I was a child.

This morning trans fat remains in the news. I wonder what this will do to fast food biz? I am thinking that if they stop super-sizing everything, the bad fat level will automatically be reduced. The staffers are instructed to ask if you want "blah, blah" with that or to tell you that you can get a larger size for a few cents more. While at a mall, I bought a cup of coffee but needed a quiet place to sit, so decided to buy a sweet roll and sit in that area. The roll was freshly baked and heaving with sugary topping. As I prepared to pay I was given a small cup full of the topping. When I said I don't need extra, the young man replied, "This is not extra, it goes with it." Oh my, talk about sugar overdose. 

O.K. I continue to be puzzled. Don't get me wrong, I am not unhappy with the fact that my article about being nice when quitting your job has reached over 10 thousand hits, just puzzled. 

Monday, October 30, 2006

Fall Back, Spring Ahead

pocket watches and clocks -- Click for more Information to popup      I have turned all of my clocks back, except one, it is "sort of broken", it keeps good time but I can change the time, so I just leave it.  Last week I was telling a friend how I dislike this time change. For a couple weeks I will look at my clock and think it should 'this' time now. Sunday morning I woke up at 5:45a and could not get back to sleep, I decided to check my e-mails and saw that my laptop clock showed 4:45a, oh no, I forgot that I had turned my clocks back an hour. So now what can I do at 4:45 in the morning?

I can remember the one time that I forget to change the time. I zipped up to Willowbrook to get an early start and found that Willowbrook was closed. I thought, what's going on, there are cars here, why can't I get in the buildings. When I figured it out, I decided to just stay and wait for the stores to open. Fortunately, they opened the court area a half-hour or so before the stores opened, and I was able to get coffee (along with the store employees). Very embarrasing, even though no one knew what I had done. Great Daylight Saving Time information http://www.infoplease.com/spot/daylight1.html

I am watching the news and see that Jerry Springer is on. He is being urged to dance (Springer is on "Dancing with the Stars", don't know channel or time, but sure of name [I think]). I am amazed to see that there is a shy side to this man. I would have not thought he had one considering his show, which can surely be counted as #2 in sleaze shows. Maury Povich is definately #1 or maybe his show is just tawdry. So I am looking at Jerry dance now, and he is almost blushing--how sweet. 

WOW! South Orange's PAC is open

 -- Click for more Information to popup     South Orange's PAC is open http://sopac.vpsland.com/ and it has a movie theater http://www.clearviewcinemas.com/08.05-south_orange.shtml   I am so excited about the first movies they are showing. There are two recent films for the kiddies, but they are showing these oldies for the oldies (smiling), The Godfather, Moonstruck, Raiders Of The Lost Ark  and West Side Story. Does it get any better? I wonder if that will change? Can't wait to see the SOPAC tomorrow. Am hopeful that I can walk inside. I am sure that it is not as grand as the NJPAC, but few local venues are. Yah NJPAC!

 I am ashamed to say that I have not visited East Orange's new movie theater. Sadly, both  So Or. and E. Or. have evening shows, no early views (deep sigh).  

Friday, October 27, 2006

What Flavor Margarita Are You?

 -- Click for more Information to popup      What Flavor Margarita Are You?
http://www.blogthings.com/whatflavormargaritaareyouquiz/ 

Oddly, this does seem to be me in other folks eyes :) LOL

***You Are a Strawberry Margarita***

You're so sweet it's a little overwhelming, and people are a little afraid of corrupting you... It's a little difficult to imagine you with a margarita.  And you're truly a different person after you've kicked back a couple!

Give this a try--it's fun.

Monday, October 23, 2006

Away Far Too Long

clipbaord      It's been a while since I have been here. I have been putting my thoughts on paper with plans to transfer them here. Of course I have not done that.

I found a blog page that I really enjoy  http://bagelinharlem.blogspot.com/ I guess there could be a problem or a bit of flaming here, but I have not seen any. 

My EO Friends of the East Orange Library meeting last week was a thumbs-up. The book sale did wonderfully well, 2K+. Also, the library is getting a small cafe type thingie for the first level. That's exciting--hopefully it won't turn into a pig sty. My fingers are crossed. I went to the BellaOnline forum with my concerns, apparently I need not worry. Everyone seems to love the idea. Most of the poster's have cafe's in their libraries or wish they had.  Our auction (silent and live) will take place Sat. Nov 18 at the library from 7p to 11p. Otis Livingston sports anchor for the "Today" show will be the guest celebrity auctioneer. I have donated very nice pieces of jewelry.  Looking forward to the auction.

When I last saw my senior, she was in an ugly state, nothing pleased her, but at her age she can be forgiven. Still it was a "buy a bottle of wine, drink a bottle of wine" evening. No, Bloggie, I did not drink wine (LOL) A few days ago I did receive a very disturbing telephone call from a family member concerning her, but I think I handled it very well. However, this is something that I will report to my agency. I always have to remember that she is my client, not just a friend. Volunteering is not always fun (deep sigh).
 
I found a check in my mail box this week end--it's a nice feeling to be paid, however, small the check, for doing something you so enjoy. Just hoping my biz mail box is holding the same.     
 
O.K. I am getting out of here. I am sitting near a window and the sun comes in very full, I just realized that I am sweating, I mean 'glowing' (LOL). I touched the radiator and it is on. Oh well, I guess I should not complain.  

Sunday, October 1, 2006

Saturday A Good Day

Cartoon faces -- Click for more Information to popup     Despite the ugly news that yet another member of Congress has resigned because of bad and illegal behavior Saturday was good--a great fall day.

Went to an art class at the Newark Musuem with a friend. As before, attendees picked their "learn to do" crafts from a bag. We both picked beading. Our teacher taught something called "Peyote" beading. The name fascinated me and when I had a chance to ask her if it was a Indian type beading, she said that it was. I confess that I did so poorly that I removed all of my beads from the string and returned them to their little jars. I figured she has to pay for those beads and there was no way I was going to keep what I was making, so I gave them back to her. :-)

I was reminded of my mom, a very talented woman who could make a dress without a pattern, once made a paper basket in a senor citizens art class. It was quite possibly the worst thing I had ever seen, we could not stop laughing. Well, Bloggie, my beading project was worse than that. LOL. My friend did much better than I. Peyote beading when done well is quite beautiful. I do plan to try again here at home, I already have a vision of what I would like to make. I am sure that I have seed beads around somewhere. I don't like working with these beads because even the largest is still small.Hence, the reason I still have them (smiling)

I fell asleep sooo early yesterday, I missed my Brit-coms. They start at 8p, how could I have fallen asleep that early??. The other side of that is I woke up at 3am and could not get back to sleep. So I watched Antiques Roadshow and an episode of  Inspector Lynley. I had missed this one.  I think Havers would make an excellent "Eve" for J.D. Robb's "Death" series. I would love to see it on the big screen.  

 

Saturday, September 30, 2006

Florida Congressman Mark Foley - Ick!

 -- Click for more Information to popup     Florida Congressman Mark Foley. I saw some of the e-mails (alleged e-mails) from Foley to male pages. EEww, eeww and eeww. He stepped down yesterday. This will probably get uglier. I just don't get it.

Thursday, September 21, 2006

Getting Older, Diversity and Other Stuff

 -- Click for more Information to popup     I spoke with a dear friend this morning and did a quick prayer. When we all were younger we never thought of illness, or if we thought of it at all, it was about someone else, never us. All of the little aches and annoying pains from long ago are making us pay our dues. I know with me it is a fall that I took when I was in my 20's and worked at the newspaper office, now I notice that my ankle becomes tender to touch when it is humid. Oh my goodness. Hel-low! Have I turned into my mom?

Stedman Graham was on television this morning talking about his new book, Diversity: Leaders Not Labels – A New Plan for the 21st Century. He seemed uncomfortable talking about the book, but I know that he is a dynamic speaker. Maybe he was not used to hawking his books on television. I bought You Can Make It Happen years ago and found it helpful and inspirational. I still go back to it.  Graham said something that really got my attention, "...connect to people based on their spirit." I love that. He was talking about looking past the obvious, gender, skin color, ethnicity and looking for the not so obvioius. I am sure that I will purchase this new book.

People tend to forget that Stedman Graham is a successful businessman http://www.stedmangraham.com/ and not just Oprah's BF.  The thing is once when I needed some information concerning him and could not remember his full name, I did type "Stedman Oprah's boyfriend", it even works when you type "Oprah's boyfriend." Either way he pops up (LOL)  Thanks to one the atty's in my old office, I learned very early on that you don't have to be a genuis to do a search on the Internet. I salute her wisdom and hope she is doing well wherever she is.

This is a stressful writing week. Mostly because I am having a problem putting articles together. My mind is wandering something awful. I decided to read something that would allow me to enjoy the words rather that think about them, so I chose a couple of my "Cat Who...." novels. Did that work? Nope, I find myself putting strips of paper between the pages of the novels. In one, there is a mention of  valentine candy, you know those heart shaped boxes filled with chocolates. That took me back to my childhood, I clearly remembered that my dad used to buy a large box of these candies every Valentines Day. I can'tremember if mom actually ate the candy, but I guess she must have, I don't recall getting one of the little chocolates.  

None of us is defined by our circumstances, nor are we defined by how other people perceive us. It is up to each one of us to define ourselves, and that is a life's work. Each of us has the ability to lead a dynamic life by pursuing our unique goals and dreams. There are no limits to what you can do.

 Stedman Graham

Monday, September 18, 2006

Lack of Connection is Just a Passing Phase

Weird face -- Click for more Information to popup That's what my horoscope has said for 3 days already. What's up with this?? But taking taking some precautions, moving slowly and with purpose--just in case ;-).  I talked at length with my girlfriend, three of us may get together before the snow flys. While talking to her, I was reminded of something I have always remembered from the Felix and Oscar television show (can't remember proper name). Felix was fond of saying, "Never assume, because when you do you make an 'ass' of  'u' and 'me'." That was so obvious when we were speaking of hotels, etc. I guess forgot that people do change, so sometime this year we will all stay at what I call my 'stage door' place. If you are familiar with this classic film you will know the kind of apartment we will be living in for a week. She was delighted when I told her that our concierge(sp) may be a "Carlton-like" (Rhoda show) gentleman. She said that's fine as long as the price is right!! Was this my girlfriend? Right then I confessed that I thought she would hate it and told her why, she reminded me that at one time she had a huge expense account and that things and people do change. (LOL) It will be great to see two old friends again--we will have a lot to talk about.

You know, I just noticed that I have mentioned horoscopes in several recent posts, while I do read them I usually forget them immediately. Wonder why I am not these days?

 

Saturday, September 16, 2006

Home Again, Home Again

 -- Click for more Information to popup    I took some get-away time. Arrived home late last night, the traffic was so backed up for so long I became antsy.  Just dreadful. I am inundated with e-mails. I was able to check my e-mails while away, but just handled the ones I had to answer. There were only 2 pc's available and everybody had the same idea--checking their online mail. This is not a complaint, the pc usage was free as was the printer and paper. You can't beat that.  One of the e-mails I received was an offer at my Work & Family site for free cell phones for myself and my readers for a review of the new phones. Of course I cannot accept these phones, so will respond with regrets and a thank you for offer today. 

I had saved some information asking me to do some volunteer work for a local community cause. This morning, I said no and deleted the information. I am really trying to get better at saying no without feeling guilty.

Thursday, September 7, 2006

Gotta Get Cable?

 -- Click for more Information to popup   I am thinking that I just may have to break down and get cable, at least I was thinking that last night. It's so difficult trying to watch television cuz I really do hate most of the shows. I finally turned to Ch. 13 and caught a program about Leonard Bernstein. It was great--I think he may have been my first real crush. I clearly remember watching Young People's Concert every week, without fail. I thought he was sooo handsome. Last night they were showing an aged Bernstein and was wondering, "is that what he looked like?" and finally they showed early Bernstein, the man I remembered. I did get a chance to see him in person and he was as powerful (I doubt I used that word back then) as I remembered him on television. I never knew anything about him, except his music. Boy, he had issues, and then some. I remember crying like a baby when I learned that he had died.  I am sure that I have a couple of his records in "my vault". I often think of doing something with my old records, there is a lot of good stuff there, including some very old (1920's??) records.

 

Tuesday, September 5, 2006

Finger's Crossed for a Good Week

Wishbone -- Click for more Information to popup     Well, one of my contracts was just renewed for another year (yah!). I signed Saturday. I have finished two reviews and sent them in, am hopeful that they will be used this week.  Have to head to my biz mailbox with a positive attitude, maybe I will find goodies awaiting.  

I am looking outside and all of the trees are still green, but it feels like fall. I still can't believe how it feels like so Autumn already. Of course, you know that I don't hate it. This is a favorite time of year for me. Still, when the weather changes so quickly, I am always reminded of those old cartoons where "night falls" and night comes down like a falling curtain. This moring I grabbed a sweater to toss over my shoulder's and see that 2 buttons are missing. (whine) I hate when that happens, you can't even replace them unless you have saved the one or two extras that come with new sweater. When you keep clothing as long as I do, that is highly unlikely. Still I will check in my button box, maybe I will get lucky, or least find 9 buttons that match and fit the button-hole. Yeh, right! (lol)

I might well leave the house now, the telephone call I was waiting for is not happening :-(

 

Monday, September 4, 2006

Misleading Media Header??

cigarette -- Click for more Information to popup      Today as always, when my AOL Welcome Page opened I looked at all of the sections. This is what I saw in the Lifestyle Section.
 
Alarming Report on Cigarettes
Are Black Smoker's Being Targeted
 
Wow!! Naturally I clicked on the blue link to read this story--this is the paragraph mentioning "blacks"
 
The study found the three most popular cigarette brands with young smokers - Marlboro, Newport and Camel - delivered significantly more nicotine than they did years ago. Nicotine in Kool, a popular menthol brand, rose 20 percent. More than two-thirds of black smokers use menthol brands.
 
I am not getting it. It may be true that blacks do smoke more menthol. My dad smoked Camels. MMMmmm digressing. When you click on the blue link this is what you actually find.
 
U.S. Report: More Nicotine in Cigarettes
 
Why that particular header? I have read reports that the show that  some African American and Hispanic neighborhoods are targeted with cigarette [and  liquore] ads. However, "targeting" is not the subject in the article above.  When I see stuff like this, it makes me sad. :-(  
 
FYI. When I clicked on the Mass.  link in the article I was taken to the states "try to stop smoking" link http://trytostop.org/
 
 

Tennis's Bad Boy Gone Good

tennis racket -- Click for more Information to popup    I can't believe that former tennis bad boy Andre Agassi has become almost an elder statesman in tennis. I keep remembering the cocky, in-your-face, flamboyant Agassi who would fly of the handle at the drop of a hat. To hear him speak to eloquently about his fans and tennis, and to watch those tears streaming down his face was something to behold.

A lot of people are not aware that Agassi has done some very find things, one is his foundation.Elton John (Sir Elton) and Emeril Lagasse are on the BOD of The Andre Agassi Charitable Foundation. I am aware that the full board is important, but there are to two names I am familiar with.  http://www.agassifoundation.org/

 
The AACF was founded 1994 by professional tennis player Andre Agassi, the Andre Agassi Charitable Foundation (AACF) was created to provide recreational and educational opportunities for at-risk children in Southern Nevada.

Since its inception, the Foundation has supported more than 20 organizations and raised more than $60 million for programs designed to enhance a child's character, self-esteem and career possibilities. Because all of the Foundation's operating costs are underwritten, every penny raised goes directly towards improving the lives of at-risk youth.

"I have been very blessed and had many opportunities available to me," said Agassi. "Children today face so many obstacles. If I can make a positive impact on at least one child's life, then it has all been worthwhile."

While he was behaving badly on court, he was being generous elsewhere. Good for you A.A.

Made a Hard Decision, Can I Follow Through?

 -- Click for more Information to popup Today my horoscope says, You are being restrained from expressing yourself as freely as you would like, but this is probably more positive than you realize. If you just say whatever is on your mind today, you could offend people who mean a lot to you. Patience is your best friend now. Don't make any sudden changes yet, but if you feel certain about something special, move slowly and with great intent. Sometimes it is so right-on it is scary. I have been wrestling with a decision I have (already have made in my heart) to make. Not quite sure how to go about it.

Personal life changing decisions are so hard. I have thought about the positives and negatives. The negatives here far outweigh the positives. I am relying on my mom's wisdom--it has not failed me yet. 

Saturday, September 2, 2006

Welcome Fall

Autumn leaves I have been so busy do my 'writing for money' thing that I have not visited Bloggie. This week I changed my Watkins site for Autumn www.watkinsonline.com/ryanes. I was telling a friend that this site fought me all the way to complete edit. :-( Very frustrating. Oh well--it's done now :-)

Want to wish my September buddies a happy birthday month. Enjoy! my Virgo and Libra friends. I am not clever enough to remember that off the top of my head, but I am clever enough to keep my Linda Goodman's Sun Signs book close at hand.  

Friday, August 11, 2006

In a Reflective Mood

astrology: Pisces -- Click for more Information to popup       

I have been in a reflective mood for a while now. I am not sure what's going on, but I will just ride it through.

This latest bit about terrorists and airplanes has really shaken me. Not that I plan to go anywhere soon, but the idea that I can't take a bottle of water or make up is scary. Especially, the make up part--maybe they will let women keep their eye brow pencils. If my mom where still with us, she would be calling at all hours to make sure that I was not going to Bermuda or some place (smile) She would also tell me about "Judgment Day". I don't know about that, but it seems to be someone's judgment day. Very unsettling. If I had cable or whatever, I guess I would watch the news about terrorists on 140 channels, instead of just a few.

I am in the process of getting rid of a lot of stuff. An old toaster oven, some outdated and broken computers/printers, etc. And finally, I am tossing those electric cords and goodness knows what else. I have a habit of getting rid of a piece of equipment but keeping the cord. Oh well, by Monday this stuff is gone. (LOL)

Hope to take some R&R soon. R&R??, What? Oh I can hear you guys, wondering out loud why I would need this, I am retired, right? Well, my days are no longer 9 to 5 and a few weekends; they are now 6:00a (sometimes 5:30a) until 9p or so and most weekends. What are you gonna do? Still I do love working from home. Now when it rains, I am out because I want to be. I have been retired for over a year, but this (2006) is my spirit-wise productive year.

I am been reviewing the horoscope (again) I had done 25 years ago. Although I did not want to accept much of what I saw early on, it was on target then and it is now. One of the things is said in many ways was that whatever money I received, I would have to earn it myself. Unfortunately, truer words were never written (laughing)  There is also something about me 'marching to a different drummer', when I first read that I was somewhat offended and did not accept it, because no one follows orders or stays inside the lines, like I can and always do. So I did what so many horoscope readers do, accept only the things you like, and consider the other stuff bogus (smiling)  Through the years, I have realized that although I do stay inside the lines, absolutely no one can make me paint with colors I don't like. ;-)  I guess a mother really does know her child. (smiling)

Monday, July 31, 2006

So. Is it Hot Enough for You?

Sunshine -- Click for more Information to popup      I just had to say that. I don't remember temps ever reaching this high on a daily basis. Although, yesterday I did do a lot a moving around and found the weather quite pleasant. I suspect that will not be the case the rest of the week.   :-(

 

 

Sunday, July 30, 2006

Morning Musings

 -- Click for more Information to popup    Mornin' Bloggie. Just having my morning coffee (a treat because I have cut back)  as I am jogging my memory.

It's been a long couple of weeks since I have been here. Not sure why it has taken so long to sit down and talk. Last night I kept waking up thinking about the young Jersey girl who was killed recently. Not sure why this has had such a profound affect on me. We often make such bad and wrong choices. I would put money that she did not tell her parents where she was really going when she and her friend headed out for the evening. Their car was towed because it was parked illegally, it may have been legal when they started--maybe meter time ran out. My guess is that she chose to walk rather than ride in that ambulance and have her parents contacted because she thought that she would 'get into trouble' with them. I am sure that this is staying with me because I am remembering a night when I stayed out. It was so long ago. What was I? 19, 20? I can't recall. Fortunately, I chose to go home the next day and take my licks. But there were none. Just gratitude that I was home. My parents had to endure gossip from neighbors because their 'goody-two-shoes' daughter had done the unthinkable. But the truth was I simply stayed out too late to get a bus home. I do recall being terrified as I caught the bus from Newark to Elizabeth. In the scheme of things it seems like such a short distance, but it never occurred to me to start walking home. Not sure what I was thinking when I walked through the door--I just remember being happy to be home. I started crying the minute I saw my mom and dad. 

I see that Mel Gibson is in "anti-semitic" trouble again. While watching the news this morning the site TMZ was mentioned as the commentator talked about the Gibson's DUI arrest. I checked it out and this is what I found.  http://www.tmz.com/2006/07/28/gibsons-anti-semitic-tirade-alleged-cover-up/  If all of this is true, and he said it while under the influence of alcohol, (alcohol does loosen the tongue) the man has issues. But he is not the only one. Are we more divided than ever before (deep sigh)

Last week I had so much to do that I was almost incapable of doing anything. This is not a good thing. I can't blame anyone except myself. Sometimes you do get what you ask for ;-) I have until August 9 to put things right. I will do that.  I did get a chance to get out for drinks with a friend. We went to a Mexican place close by, it has been years since I was there last. It was as I remembered it. After I returned home, I am thinking bar was on the opposite side of the resturant ??  I won't embarrasse(sp?) myself by asking the young wait staff I saw there if that is true.  I will just enjoy.

Gotta go Bloggie--they are talking about beautiful Tybee Island in Georgia. It was recommended that I take one day to see it and I regret that I did not listen to that advice while I was in Savanah.

Monday, July 17, 2006

A Wonderful Quote

concept: Greek intellectualism -- Click for more Information to popup        I recently found this quote and shared it with a dear friend. Now sharing it with my friends here as well. "I love everything that's old: old friends, old times, old manners, old books, old wine." - Oliver Goldsmith

I figure the quote must have been waiting for me to find it. I am hoping that the Oliver Goldsmith I found is the one who said the above. http://www.aolsvc.worldbook.aol.com/wb/Article?id=ar228720&sc=-1 If not I think I will pretend that he did :) He appears to be a person I would have liked.

Saturday, July 15, 2006

Cats in Sinks

 -- Click for more Information to popup      I came across this site and had to have it. http://www.catsinsinks.com/  Cat people will love it, Non-cat lover's maybe not so much. I remember a cat who used to do this. No, not mine. They did other things but never sat in the sink. My Sammy thought it was great fun to stop my records from spinning as they played. If I put the lid on the system, he just sat on the top of it. I guess he enjoyed a little Miles too.

Thursday, July 13, 2006

Good Meeting Last Night Barbara Kukla Guest Speaker

       Author Barbara Kukla was a guest speaker at the Give 'n Take meeting I attended last night. She is sooo passionate about what she believes and truly loves. People like Barbara rank high with me. Below is information about her and her new book. Way to go :-) 

LOCAL AUTHOR NOMINATED FOR BOOK AWARD
By Fred Simpson

Barbara J. Kukla, a well known and respected author in the Essex County area, has been nominated by the New Jersey Council for the Humanities for its 2005 Book Award. This award is given for the best non-fiction work about New Jersey or by a New Jersey author. Ms. Kukla’s latest book is titled “Defying the Odds: Triumphant Black Women of Newark” , which has received the nomination. The book tells th stories of eight great achievers from New Jersey’s largest city and profiles accomplishments of more than two hundred others. The award presentation will be made at the council’s October luncheon. Barbara is also the author of “Swing City: Nightlife, 1925-1950.” Before her retirement, Barbara was the editor of the “Newark This Week “ section of the Star Ledger. She continues to support the arts in the community and participates in activities geared toward helping the younger generation. Local Talk salutes a local hero, Barbara J. Kukla. ( Barbara can be reached at bjkukla@aol.com)     

Wednesday, July 12, 2006

I Saw Devil Wears Prada :-)

Devil with a pitchfork in his hand -- Click for more Information to popup   When I saw Prada, I was reminded of a boss who used to call me at home on my lunch hour (I lived close by) just about everyday to ask me to stop by a store and bring stuff to her , cookies, pantyhose, etc. I finally stopped answering my phone, I am sure that she knew I was home but what could she do I did not leave because of the annoying telephone "bring me things" calls--I finally left because she used to yell at her husband and it was very embarrasing.

There is an interesting article in AOL's movie news stating Prada movie spotlights nasty boss phenom. I have placed URL in my brand new blog. http://movieswithvannie.blogspot.com/   Be sure to participate in the 'mean boss' poll once you get there.

I do have to work on the links--thanks to a friend, I know what I need to do, but like Scarlett, I will think about it tomorrow.  

Monday, July 10, 2006

A Busy Week Coming Up

I had a pleasant weekend and was glad to see that New Jersey is again open for business.

Afro-American women -- Click for more Information to popup      I am looking at my calendar and wondering why I put so much into this week. I even have a 8a meeting one day  :-( no one's fault except my own. Getting ready for breakfast, can't believe that I have not have coffee or tea in a forever time. Now that I am thinking of it, maybe I will have a cup of tea this morning.  I am sure that I have done the "you must drink water" penance long enough.

Will be happy when kids go back to school so I can use the library in comfort. I guess I should not complain, I think it's wonderful that so many are there, even if some are just using the computer area. The children's book room looks so peaceful, I am tempted to go in and write, I wonder if I can pretend one of  the kids is my grandchild ;-)

Oh well, crossing my fingers that I can get to everything I have on my list today. 

Saturday, July 8, 2006

Start of a Good Weekend

I awakened very early this morning, I know this is not real news :-) and turned television to check if there was further information our State issue. I turned to channel 13, hoping for news and instead was treated to "Quiltmaker's of Gee's Bend." What a moving and inspiring piece about black women in a small town who quilt and have become quite famous for it. They now travel all over the country. I did see Jane Fonda, not sure of her connection with the quilter's or the man put this together. But I do know that this is the kind of thing that she is interested.  The women used to sell these quilts for $5 to $12 ($12 was high-end)  One woman laughed and said that when she was told that she could get $1,500-2,000 she thought the guy was crazy, but figured that she would wait and see. There was one woman who is so obviously afraid to step outside of her circle, she does not participate in traveling. She says that her doctor told she can't be with stranger's and not to travel. She also talks about how terrible her husband was to her. You can hear the pain in her voice, you can see it in her face. We can't always choose our journey or destinations, can we? I heard a gospel song that I had not heard since I was a child. It is titled "Jesus is My Only Friend." I have always disliked that song so much. It sounds like a dirge--much too eerie and depressing for me. My mother was scandalized when I told her that I did not like the song and would not sing it. One of the women said something very interesting, she said "You sing, you forget." It put me in an odd weepy mood and once more I missed my dear friend Wanda. I would have called her first thing this morning and she would have said "This better be good, why are you calling me so early?" Don't worry, she got me too, but her time was late at night (LOL)  This is truly a must see. The quilts are beautiful. One woman made a quilt of all of her deceased husband's clothing so she could wrap it around her when she missed him and became lonely.

I should say up front that these women were "discovered" by a white art historian. I tell you that because I have been given grief because I was so enthusiastic about photographer Brian Lanker's amazing"IDream a World : Portraits of Black Women who Changed America." I went to DC alone to see it and it still moves me when I think of the large portraits, especially the one of Barbara Jordan sitting in her wheelchair. Potent stuff. So, no "Hey girl, what's up with you?" e-mails o.k? Cuz, you have to respect those who see, recognize and act.

Here is link to the site http://www.quiltsofgeesbend.com/quiltmakers/ 

I ordered the DVD from PBS this a.m. http://www.shoppbs.org/sm-pbs-the-quiltmakers-of-gees-bend-dvd--pi-1954063.html

 Mmm. Now how is this the start of a good weekend? It makes me feel good that these wonderful old women are being recognized for their art. Also today is a friend's birthday, we will have a nice brunch in a pretty place and enjoy.

Thursday, July 6, 2006

Morning Musings - Bad Time for Jersey

concept: strategy business man moving -- Click for more Information to popup      So what do you think? My guess is that Corzine will be a one-term governor.  I realize that I am in the minority when I say that I don't care about gambling in the casinos, but I have to tell you that I would not want to walk into a silent one, how spooky is that? The noise is part of the excitement, it lets you know that you are in AC. The daily rain must add another level of disappointment for vactioning visitor's to the Garden State. They can't even walk on the beach or enjoy the rides, etc.  

What a mess we have here in Jersey. It's not just about Atlantic City either, so many government arms are affected by this State shut down. Registered voter's are like women with long memories, they remember things you don't even remember saying. They surely won't forget this fiasco, even if the fault is not 100 percent on the Governor.  Hopefully, he will be forgiven when everyone returns to work. Concerning the 7% sales tax--just pay it.  

I am hopeful that things will be back in order by the weekend.

Saturday, July 1, 2006

Luv Those Old Night Clubs

lounge singer with piano player      I just found this amazing link. i started searching for information regarding Barbara Walters dad, Lou Walters (Latin Quarter) and found this delicous link to old nightclubs in New York  http://www.tipsontables.com/ . Never mind that I would not have been able to step foot in them, and it's not because I was too young (laughing), this kind of stuff just knocks me out. Not that I would have been interested in dressing up and heading to Luchow's to eat pigs knuckles.   Happily, I did get a taste of this life in the late 60's to early 80's--you had to love it. I saw and danced to "the Duke" at the Rainbow Room, he kissed me on the check for my birthday, signed an autograph and asked to me about my 'hovering' honey ;-)  I wonder where that autograph is??  

If any of my babies are reading this, I am ordering you to stop guessing how old I am, right this minute.