Monday, May 29, 2006

Honoring Our Veterans Today


Symbol of a medal   While surfing the net for something appropriate for this day, I found Vice President Lyndon Johnson's very unusual Memorial Day speech 43 years ago.  

http://www.usmemorialday.org/

Remarks of Vice President Lyndon B. Johnson Memorial Day, Gettysburg, PA May 30, 1963

On this hallowed ground, heroic deeds were performed and eloquent words were spoken a century ago.

We, the living, have not forgotten--and the world will never forget--the deeds or the words of Gettysburg. We honor them now as we join on this Memorial Day  of 1963 in a prayer for permanent peace of the world and fulfillment of our hopes for universal freedom and justice.

We are called to honor our own words of reverent prayer with resolution in the deeds we must perform to preserve peace and the hope of freedom.

We keep a vigil of peace around the world.

Until the world knows no aggressors, until the arms of tyranny have been laid down, until freedom has risen up in every land, we shall maintain our vigil to  make sure our sons who died on foreign fields shall not have died in vain.

As we maintain the vigil of peace, we must remember that justice is a vigil, too--a vigil we must keep in our own streets and schools and among the lives of  all our people--so that those who died here on their native soil shall not have died in vain.

One hundred years ago, the slave was freed.

One hundred years later, the Negro remains in bondage to the color of his skin.

The Negro today asks justice.

We do not answer him--we do not answer those who lie beneath this soil--when we
reply to the Negro by asking, "Patience."

It is empty to plead that the solution to the dilemmas of the present rests on the hands of the clock. The solution is in our hands. Unless we are willing to  yield up our destiny of greatness among the civilizations of history, Americans --white and Negro together--must be about the business of resolving thechallenge which confronts us now.

Our nation found its soul in honor on these fields of Gettysburg one hundred years ago. We must not lose that soul in dishonor now on the fields of hate.

To ask for patience from the Negro is to ask him to give more of what he has already given enough. But to fail to ask of him--and of all Americans--perseverance within the processes of a free and responsible society would be to fail to ask what the national interest requires of all its citizens.

The law cannot save those who deny it but neither can the law serve any who do not
use it. The history of injustice and inequality is a history of disuse of the law.  Law has not failed--and is not failing. We as a nation have failed ourselves by not trusting the law and by not using the law to gain sooner the ends of justice which law alone serves.

If the white over-estimates what he has done for the Negro without the law, the Negro may under-estimate what he is doing and can do for himself with the law.

If it is empty to ask Negro or white for patience, it is not empty--it is merely honest--to ask perseverance. Men may build barricades--and others may hurl themselves against those barricades--but what would happen at the barricades would yield no answers. The answers will only be wrought by our perseverance together. It is deceit to promise more as it would be cowardice to demand less.

In this hour, it is not our respective races which are at stake--it is our nation. Let those who care for their country come forward, North and South, white and Negro, to lead the way through this moment of challenge and decision.

The Negro says, "Now." Others say, "Never." The voice of responsible Americans
--the voice of those who died here and the great man who spoke here--their voices say,
"Together." There is no other way.

Until justice is blind to color, until education is unaware of race, until opportunity is unconcerned with the color of men's skins, emancipation will be a proclamation but not a fact. To the extent that the proclamation of emancipation is not fulfilled in fact, to that extent we shall have fallen short of assuring freedom to the free.

Sunday, May 28, 2006

Memorial Day Weekend

D-Day Normandy WWII     It appears that this is going to be a lovely 3 day week end. Yesterday was excellent and today has a good start toward excellence.

I have had a good but uneventful week and don't mind that at all.  No back-to-back meetings so that I forget that I am retired from my 9 to 5. Watkins biz is good. What a joy it is, sometimes when I talk to people about Watkins they say, "You really like what you're doing don't you?" I have to laugh because I really do. I received a request from Canada for 'Good Tastings' event information Tuesday and have not yet responded. I must do it this morning.  I finally finished my personal web site--it only took a year :-(  I should be embarrassed by that but somehow I am not, just happy that it is done, well almost, just need to do some tweaking. I will see extended family for a short while today and head back home. I don't want to miss the Memorial Day happenings on PBS. Tomorrow I will stay close by; no shore for me. I do wish that I had remembered to request this holiday time. I can see myself sitting at the Basin eating clams casino, drinking a tall beer and looking at pretty boats. Oh boy :-) 

Speaking of food. I ate at Applebee's one day this week. I know that a lot of people don't like them but I love their food (not the dessert though, too over the top). I ordered spinach salad with shrimp. It was delicious until I found something foreign in my food. Fortunately or unfortunately, I guess it depends on how you look at it, I had almost finished before I saw it. I did not panic, but I was grossed out, because I did not have my glasses on so I could have swallowed the dark mass. Anyway I told my waitress and showed her the clump on the side of the plate. She said she was sorry and nothing else. By the time I had two cups of coffee to wash away bad thoughts, the manager came over to talk to me. Just a few words and an apology and a freebie meal. She hoped that I would come back to Applebees' again.  I am sure that I will, probably not too soon though.

Saturday, May 27, 2006

Something That Made Me Laugh Out Loud

 
three people having a good laugh -- Click for more Information to popup     Checking in my forums this morning. I found this description of someone's children. The poster had it in her signature line. So cute and very descriptive, don't you think? It made me smile.
 
"Mom to lovely children"

Sunday, May 21, 2006

Feels Like Spring Again :-)

 -- Click for more Information to popup Checking my online mail and reading news before my morning really starts. I have received a e-mail from the Ragshop with their printable coupons. It is so strange, they give you two coupons. However, if you have a problem and the coupons don't show, you can click on another link to get them. The thing is, you can get four coupons instead of two. I have learned to go directly to the clickable link.

I just saw in the New York Times that Toni Morrison's "Beloved" was chosen the best novel in the last 25 years. WOW!

Yesterday was lovely, wasn't it Mr. Bloggie? Good weather, good friend,  o.k. food, what more can you ask. (smile) When I got home I learned that a neighbor died last month. I had heard news that someone had died and I did see the ME's car last month, but did not have a name. Yesterday I was told that it was one of the few people I know by name. He was in the building a few years before I arrived. I became so depressed by this news that I fell into an immediate funk. I ended up pulling books from the bookshelf and dusting and storing them. For some reason, certain bad news puts me in an odd energy mode. After my brother died, I remember reupholstering a side chair. I will miss seeing Mr. D--I only saw him once in a while, but it was a comforting feeling to know that one of the 'oldtimers' was still around.

I'm listening to Joel Osteen as I work. He just told a story about a couple who had been married for many years. The man was a professor at a prestigious college and his wife had developed alzheimer's desease. He decided to leave the college to care for his wife. He was asked, why woud you do that, she doesn't even know who you are. The man replied, she may not know who I am, but I kow who she is.  So powerful. I like what Osteen has to say, even though I have mixed feelings about him; not sure why.

Friday, May 19, 2006

A Disappointing Morning

document Yep. A disappointing day for me. I had hoped that I had a new client, but it fell through. Even when you feel in your heart that you have it right, the bottom line is not your call.  Ya gotta respect people, they know what they want. I know that I need to get past my "What are you thinking?" stage. After the let down, I returned home instead of picking up my mail.

I checked my forums and found that I had received a few responses. But they were from other staff types like me. Well, at least someone is paying attention. I spent the afternoon thinking and searching for ways to boost traffic.

Thumbs Up For the PAC

Picassos guitar    I went to the NJ Walk of Fame unveiling at the PAC last evening. It was really nice. Lots of inductee plaques. This is well worth a trip to the PAC. The list is fairly long, it includes: Frank Sinatra, Jack Nicholson, Susan Sarandon, Nathan Lane, Ernie Kovacs, Frederica von Stade;  plus the names we are most familiar with; Sarah Vaughan, Judith Jamison, Wynton Marsalis, Jerry Lewis, Danny DeVito, plus many more. And of course Queen Latifah. The press release is here.  http://www.njpac.org/PDF/PRWalkofFame.pdf I was tickled to find out that Celia Cruz was from Jersey. I understand better why Itzhak Perlman and Yo-Yo Ma appear to be fairly accessible and why Judith Jamison is here. Of course PAC really is world reknown now. Good for us.  

The reception was held outside in the open-air Calcada(sp??) Room. Very nice. They always have good food and pleasant wine. I saw Mamie Hale who is on the PAC woman's board and one of the nicest, kindest women I have ever met. Her husband of 48 years recently died. When I first joined the board assoc. and spoke of how I felt about Mamie, everyone was quick to tell me that her husband was "The Hale" who was the architect for Bethany Baptist. I'm thinking, so what does that have to do with her being nice?

 

Wednesday, May 17, 2006

It's Father's Day Right Now

 -- Click for more Information to popup     Yesterday was such a long day, early a.m. until 6:30p meeting that ended sometime near 9pm.  I was very happy to stay home today and read/clean my Work & Family e-mails. So many e-mails, so little time. I did a lot of reading, responding and deleating. I found one comment that was so sweet and so moving, that I would like to share with you. I wrote a short article about my recollections of my dad for Father's Day last year. The person who wrote this must have been surfing the web when she found the article last month. I responded to her today. I say "her" because the e-mail 'feels' female. Hey. Don't ask.  

---- Original Message -----
From:
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To: workandfamily@bellaonline.com
Sent: Mon, 10 Apr 2006 20:53:05 -0400
Subject: Comment Submission via Bio Page

I came across this site, while remembering my own father and read your story, I was so touched and had tears in my eyes (as I still do now) I just wanted you to know how very much your story has touched me. I miss my father terribly and reading your a section of your story sounded just like my dad, i copied and have it below for you.

Thank you, I don't know what else to say but thank you so very much.

Remembering My Father

My dad could spin a wild tale, so you never knew if he was telling the real truth or his truth. It's interesting, years later while going through his old papers I found out that daddy's truths were often not as exciting what really was fact. I found his Army discharge papers and was surprised to note how much he had accomplished. Perhaps he did not speak of this because he had such a bad time in Korea, he chose not to discuss the Army years. My mother once told me that my dad often had terrible nightmares. I was surprised to hear that.

I still miss my dad so much.  Just about anything can set off the tears.  Who else would paste my accomplishments on the wall after I reached the age of 30? Just my dad. (smiling)

Sunday, May 14, 2006

Happy Mother's Day

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Happy Mother's Day

An old Jewish proverb. God could not be everwhere, so he created mothers.   -- Click for more Information to popup 

I have found that at some point we are all mothers. Enjoy your day.

Saturday, May 13, 2006

A Busy Day

concept: late for work -- Click for more Information to popup     Had a busy day, but I am in for the rest of the evening. Whew!  I walked over to the library to see how the Teen event was doing. I arrived late, but I could see that it was going wonderfully well. Later the Chair suggested that we talk further concerning upcoming events, etc. What better place than Forno's patio to meet on such a lovely day. We had sangria. Yum. As always, Forno's was busy, when I walked out of the ladies room a party of nine was coming in. I love the excitement and ambiance of the places down neck.

When I signed on to check my messages I saw three requests to join Romance Noire Book Club. I approved one and rejected the remaining two requests. Sometimes I do feel like such a "B" when doing this, sometimes not; it would be great if all of the requests were legitimate. Although it is not necessary, when requesting to join, most people give a reason for wanting to do so. Here are the two that were rejected:

Comment from user:
I am a Romantic Person and I am searching for true Romantic mate,hope i
get her from hear.
 
Comment from user:
i love reading your books a read all of them.
 
What?? Am I stupid? :nrant:
 
I have been doing this for so long that I can spot SPAMMERS from far away. I am never sure if I am just annoyed or really insulted when people use ploys like this to get into the group to harvest e-addresses or post porn. Would we even want someone in our group who wrote the nonsense sentences above?  I think that's what gets my knickers in a twist. Are they not reading the group profile "a writing group."  They are not even clever enough to sneak under the wire. I am sure they are the same people (or person) who posted in another site. Lots of bad stuff with a URL like "spurmbanktrust". Ya gotta hate um. 
 
O. K. Van--not important, not important. Your group, your rules. They can't get in unless you let them in.  You are right Mr. Bloggie.  I will just finish what I need to do, then take five for tea and watch my Brit coms at 8p.

Week End Musings

Soap Opera -- Click for more Information to popup  I read most of my news online these days. I saw this in the Star Ledger, "A married Roman Catholic priest who battered his wife, bullied his children and fondled a boy was sentenced yesterday to six months in jail". I continue to be surprised at the level of disease that seems to plague the very people we are supposed to trust and seek guidance from. So scary. The wife never spoke up because she knew folks would not believe her. How scary and sad. The young NY man who killed his prominent physician dad has said in an interview that he wished he had not "gone that far" [to stop his dad's abuse]. I have never heard of a whole family who has no regret that their father is dead. It is hard for me to grasp. No tears from the family at the funeral, no "I will miss him."; no "He left us too soon." I am so sad for this family. I even feel sad for the father. What can make a person  hurt family so badly and so deeply, that there is no regret when he is gone?  Do we expect too much of people? I don't think so.

I have found that it is best that I read the Star Ledger first, in case there is something about UMD. This way I am not slapped in the face with more bad news by way of telephone call.

Wow. Signing back on to complete this post, I see that I was here just before 10a., then I remembered that I had a 10a meet. Fortunately it was very close by. I don't think I have ever moved so fast. It's 11:44a now, I stayed outside talking for about 1/2 hour. An interesting morning.  Well, I just found out why the battery on my cell phone is so low, I have been plugging in the cord faithfully every night to recharge and it is still low. The recharger was not plugged in any electrical outlet. (groan).

Friday, May 12, 2006

Wishing For The Olds Days When The Customer Was Important

banking, bank teller -- Click for more Information to popup   I went to the bank one day this week.  

The young woman did not recognize me so she checked my records before cashing my check--that was a good thing.

She walked back to her counter and immediately started to finish her conversation with person at the next window before handling my bank transaction. I did not say anything to her--that was a good thing for me.

When she finished her conversation I asked that she please give me the cash balance after my check  was cashed. She nodded yes and started to talk while she counted money. When she re-counted she had given me ten dollars too little, so she counted again, while she was counting, the other teller asked her a question about lunch--that was a bad thing.

My person responded but continued the transaction--that was a good thing. 

She asks if I want an envelope for my money, I say no, she hands me the money, no envelope and immediately turns to talk to her friend. I say "excuse me", when she turns to me, I say "my balance please." Her response is "o.k. give me your envelope, I will write it."   --that was a bad thing.  

I did not walk to the back and talk to any of the powers that be--that was not such a good thing, I simply did not want the bother of it all.

Oh deep sigh. I do miss the old days.

Enjoyed My Day in the City

child reading -- Click for more Information to popup  The Woman's Day Panel Discussion "The Next Bestseller: The ABC's of Creating a Children's Book" was just great. I am so delighted that I was invited and that I did attend this session. This morning I noticed that my invite stuff was posted  on one of my member sites. You never know what is important and what is not to other people. http://naww.blogspot.com/2006/05/womans-day-and-scholastic-abcs-of.html

I had not been in the SOHO area in such a long time. It brought back good (and very young) memories. Later that day I did a lot of walking and remembering. I passed my old bosses street, she once told me that the show "Taxi" was filmed in-part in the garage down the street from her. I went Washington Square; found the glorious mews neighborhood I used to covet, actually, I still do. I peeked into the windows of some of the amazing fashion houses. I cannot tell you how tired I was when I returned home. Oh. I saw Balducci's. Oh my gosh, when we used to stop by to pick up lunch fixings it was just a small shop with wonderful goodies. They had magical fruit (LOL) Now it's beyond belief. Have you ever had peanut butter made on the spot? I did at Balducci's. Boy, I never tried that again, I like my peanut butter drowned in oils and easy to swallow. :-)

It was very cool to see Whoopi Goldberg. Did not understand the ragged jeans and long wrinkled shirt, but that's what makes her who she is, isn't? Plus she is so dedicated to what she believes in. Children are important to her. I plan to buy her next children's book titled Whoopi's Big Book of Manners.  She laughed and said that it's not so much for the children, but for the adults, she figures "please" and "thank you" should be a part of everyday conversations. Since it will adults reading to children, maybe they will 'get it.' I totally agree with Whoopi. You hold a door for some people and they walk through without a word, like it's your job. :-( Deborah Norville made an excellent discussion moderater. I liked that she was 'real' and not as slick and polished as she is on Inside Edition.

The panel was made up of some high end people in the industry, but the star of this event was Cathy Molitoris, winner of the 2005 Woman's Day/Scholastic Book Clubs' "I Want to Be a Children's Book Writer" Contest for her book, I've Got Music. I just loved this book. Unfortunately, it was not among the four (count em 4!) books given to attendees. The Woman's Day/Scholastic Panel is below. Yep. I was thoroughly impressed.

Amy Berkower, Literary Agent and President, Writers House LLC

Jennifer M. Brown, Children's Reviews Editor, Publishers Weekly

Brett Helquist, Illustrator of Lemony Snicket's A Series of Unfortunate Events

Arthur A.Levine, U.S. editor of the Harry Potter series, editor and publisher, Arthur A. Levine Books

Ann M. Martin, Author of The Baby-Sitters Club series and Newbery Honoree for A Corner of the Universe

Andrea Davis Pinkney, Vice President and Publisher, Hardcover and Early Childhood Books, Scholastic

Monday, May 8, 2006

Random Acts of Kindness

person with a heart in their hands -- Click for more Information to popup Last week as I was heading to pick up my mail I saw a woman fall down across the street from me. People just walked pass her, I had to wait until traffic stopped before I could cross the street. Before I got there, I young woman in her 20's had come to the woman's aid but needed help getting the woman to her feet. I soon realized that she was intoxicated to the max, stinking drunk is a kind description. People around us murmured, "she's always drunk, always falling", etc. I ignored them as did this lovely young woman. I was surprised when she asked the woman if she were hungry; "Yes. I'm very hungry." The young woman gave the woman her lunch, while apologizing because she had taken a piece of chicken from the box. She also gave the woman a soft drink explaining that it was all natural. Of course tears came to my eyes before could stop them. Before leaving I hugged this sweet good samaritan and wished her well. She stayed on my mind most of the day.         

Tomorrow I do the Woman's Day Magazine Thing :)

business meeting, people sharing ideasI'll attend this tomorrow. Anxious to hear what Whoopi Goldberg has to say. I really do have a lot of respect for her. I'm thinking that she is probably a very nice person.  I enjoy Inside Edition and anchor Deborah Norville. It should be interesting to hear about her book, I am already somewhat familiar with Goldberg's children's book. I did not realize that Norville had written one also.

I do have to be in New York by 9a. Do you hear the silence? That's because I am not groaning. (Big Smile) 

Reading Woman's Day is one of my secret girlie vices ;-) http://www.womansday.com/default.asp There is so much good stuff in that magazine.

 

Moussaoui Changes His Mind

prison cell -- Click for more Information to popup      Boy, what a turn-a-round. Who woulda thunk it? I just read that Zacarias Moussaoui has requested to withdraw his guilty plea. The Judge denied his request. He is now saying that he lied about being part of the hijacking plot. I suspect that he hoped for the death sentence so he could continue the "I am Z. Moussaoui and I have won" show from his cell for all of the us weak Americans.  -- Click for more Information to popup Now that he has had a chance to think about those long years in solitary he is doing a back stroke. I would hope that we will not continue to hear from him, but I doubt that he will keep quiet. 

Now if only there was a way for him to have to watch through of  the eyes of all of those who saw what was happening September 11, 2001--24/7. My colleagues and I watched this horror from our office window.